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Su Ming: Take control of your life

I have generally been a pretty active person during my schooling and university days. However post-graduation, coupled with heartbreaks and the rigours of work life, exercising took a back seat and I started drinking frequently. I was drinking two to three times a week and staying up till wee hours of the morning. Somewhere in April this year, I realised this was not the life I wanted to lead. I was getting unhealthier by the day and to think that I had just joined the workforce,

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Soo Liting: If I can do it, so can you!

I used to weigh about 80kg during my teens and was mocked by friends and strangers. I was so used to having a heavy body in my life. Exercising is never in my brain but food is 24/7 there for me. I can’t remember the exact reason I started off running, but I slowly began to build the momentum and running became my main exercise. People around me begin to comment that I’m losing weight but it was’t obvious to me. I didn’t stop trying and I managed to

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Azimah Azmi: Fitness is more than just a transformation

For a while I blamed the depression, the eating disorder, the personal betrayals and heartbreaks, the abuse, the running away, the impossible standards in society and the self-harm that led to my body image issues — but that led me nowhere. What struck me was the fact that I was letting all these things eat at me and take over instead of trying to take control of my own life. I was playing the “victim” story and it was exhausting being stuck like that. One day I got sick (I

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Anonymous: Never stop trying

I have been and still am battling bulimia. It has been 13 to 14 years now. I can’t quite remember how it started, why it started but it’s something that has been so ingrained in me, so constant and sickeningly, almost like a reliable friend that I can always go to at the end of the day should I feel… fat. I won’t say I am not seeking recovery, I can’t say I am actively trying either. But I am no longer in hiding at least. I told close friends and family, my

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Magdalene Lim: Not just how you look, but how you feel too

Since young, I’ve always been a pretty average-sized kid. During my secondary school years, I was not active in exercising or any kind of sports, till I graduated and joined a dragonboat team, where stamina and endurance was a need so I trained hard for it. However, at that point of time, I did not notice any changes to my physical body. It still looked chubby to me. Then I started working at Wavehouse Sentosa. I started feeling self-conscious about my body,

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There’s a pressure to look good for some jobs, s

There’s a pressure to look good for some jobs, so how can they deal with it and not let it turn into something negative?

@goodity.co has the goods…

When we struggle with something, naturally we want

When we struggle with something, naturally we want to talk to those closest to us. But sometimes, these are the very people who brush us off or worse, scold us.

So who can we turn to? @goodity.co tells us…

Someone in your family, a friend or a colleague mi

Someone in your family, a friend or a colleague might be struggling with something. Perhaps they have been more distant and withdrawn, perhaps they have been excessively dieting and exercising; you sense that something is not right.

How do you approach this person without offending him/her?

@goodity.co has some amazing advice for this…

Positive self-affirmations like, “You are enough

Positive self-affirmations like, “You are enough”, “You are stronger than you think”, can sometimes make you feel worse. How else can you improve your self-esteem?

@goodity.co shares some advice in this video…

People are often so quick to criticise and give ne

People are often so quick to criticise and give negative comments, especially about our appearances.

“Wah you gained weight leh”, “Why you exercise but still so fat ah”, “You better slim down if not nobody want you ah”.

How do we tell these people to stop commenting, especially if they are friends or family (eg. relatives, in-laws)?

Watch this video with advice from @goodity.co.

We have a tendency to compare ourselves (what we h

We have a tendency to compare ourselves (what we have or don’t have) to others and that can leave us feeling bad about ourselves. What can we do to stop this?

Watch the video to hear from @goodity.co.

I had a very unhealthy relationship with my body w

I had a very unhealthy relationship with my body when I was in my early 20s and the relationship carried till Circuit Breaker. This period of isolation forced me to reflect on my own inner child wounds.

I was born with big hips structure and damn jialat metabolism. At 24, I tried to lose weight by jogging every morning and only having yogurt for the whole day. I did lose some weight but I also lost a lot of my hair. That lifestyle lasted for 2 months and I was not in a good mental space. Then I went back to my usual diet and gained all the weight back.

In 2021, I got molested in the bus by this Gray Hoodie Ah Pek. He sat beside me, pretended to fall asleep and circled his thumb on my thigh. He then alighted the bus and looked back at me with a smirk. I swear I was beyond disgusted.

Due to genetics, I have a heavier bottom and the yoga pants and bicycle shorts that I buy online are not squat-proof (very transparent at the butt area) so most of the time when I head out for training I would need to double wear my yoga/bicycle pants with shorts. But that day, I was in a cover-up dress that showed nothing and was feeling disgusted and fat. I reported him to the police anyway.

Later, I released myself from a very toxic situation when I was constantly seeking for acceptance and at the same time, I received news that Gray Hoodie Ah Pek was sentenced to 2 counts with 4 months imprisonment.

At that point of time, it was very dark and I questioned myself frequently, “Is it because I am not good enough?”, “Confused, I was fat but why did that ah pek still touch me?”, “Guilty, because I was one of the reasons that sent him to imprisonment and he might have a family to feed.”, “Why me?”.

To cope, I went back to doing yoga and also started Muay Thai. I felt more balance, love and acceptance towards myself; learned self-defence, resilience, discipline and how to stay grounded.

Definitely, there will still be days when I question myself with my own self-acceptance, but I made a promise to myself to continue to learn and grow mentally and never stop.

Thank you for reading my story. Namaste.

- Val (@soundslikehokkienmee)

Came across this photo taken in 2010 and I had pos

Came across this photo taken in 2010 and I had posted it on Facebook with a caption “omg I look so fat here”.

This was when I was struggling with my eating disorders. I was starving myself, taking slimming pills, counting calories and I remember feeling so miserable all the time.

How was this fat?! I clearly was struggling with my body, with my self-worth, with my confidence. And this lack of self-confidence showed in many different ways.

For example, I was constantly in relationships or dating because I needed attention for validation. I would stay in toxic relationships even though I know it’s bad, and I would enable it further, because at the back of my mind I just want to feel loved.

It took me over a decade to reach where I am now and it hasn’t been easy at all. There are days when some of these past demons rear their ugly heads but I am able to better deal with them now.

Self-love is a journey, so be patient and keep working at it!